THE HYGEINE OF MARRIAGE: OUR MORAL CODE IN ITS EXTREMEST FORM
Our moral code in its extremest form has, in the past, set tip as its ideal the complete inhibition of all thoughts about sex before marriage. At the same time it has expected the magic of the marriage ceremony to make both man and woman instantaneously wise about all the problems they will meet in marriage. Every year in this country over a million men and women begin marriage. Most of these are not prepared to control reliably and hygienically the time at which their children will be born. Most of them know nothing of the problems of physical adjustment that will confront them. Some of them may be lucky and enjoy the full satisfactions of sexual union in spite of their ignorance, but one-half of them, if we may judge by statistics collected, will have a sexual experience that is unsatisfactory to either wife or husband or both.
This refers to physical adjustment alone. There is probably even greater unhappiness produced by the failure of persons of compatible temperaments to get together in marriage. The conventional barriers between the sexes and the differentiation in training of men and women which are inseparably connected with sex taboos are certainly not conducive to ideal companionship in marriage. The segregation of the sexes is a survival of primitive life which is complicated by the mobility and urbanization of modern society. It limits most persons to a very meager range of acquaintances from whom they are expected to choose a mate for life, and they are blamed if they do not succeed in being contented. Under these conditions, it is surprising that as many as do make a success of marriage.
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